Even though YOU ARE RIGHT about what should be happening with your kid's performance, attitude, motivation, tone, contribution in the home does not mean the actual problem is solved.
It takes a very artful conversation to get to the bottom of why!!!!
Then, when the root cause is identified, real solutions can be discovered or created.
Insulting, yelling, punishing and lecturing are just reactions to the issue, not anywhere close to being the fix.
Let me know if you'd like some insight on this.
With your help, I can get the temperature in your home WAYYYYY down-- and honestly that's even more useful than "solving problems"...just a space where compassion and growth are even possible.