Is your home a war zone?
That could mean a silent war or a really loud one.
That could mean the parents are at a stalemate or pointing their "weapons" at each other constantly due to finances, the relationship, the kids, not agreeing on upcoming plans and decisions, blaming for past things, never letting go of old mistakes...
That could mean no one feels safe to be vulnerable enough to admit fault, even when they know they should own it.
That could mean that every single little part of the day is a total battleground for power with the kids and the parents.
That could mean everyone is walking on eggshells and also doing all they can to keep the upper hand.
You know what it feels like and maybe you forgot what harmony and peace and safe space feels like. Maybe you've never had it.
Waiting and hoping are NOT getting you to the life you imagined.
Courage is required and you really do have to "do it scared."
You are not alone. I'm not scared of ANYTHING. I got you.